As I awaited the arrival of Little Man (LM), a lot of things were going through my mind. There were your standard worries about labor and delivery, hoping we’d both be healthy, and the terrifying realization that I was going to be a parent! On the lesser side of the spectrum were smaller worries such as: Pacifier or no pacifier? Bassinet or crib? And the one that constantly had me preoccupied was: What am I going to wear during postpartum recovery?
Now before you laugh at what may seem a silly worry, allow me to explain myself. One of my greatest pet peeves is seeing women at the grocery store or post office in pajama bottoms, ratty t-shirts, and disheveled hair. I want to march up to them and say “You own 12 cats, don’t you?” Okay, what I really want to ask is “When did you give up on yourself?” And when I see a woman in such a state with a child, my eyes begin to twitch. As a woman, I pride myself in looking beautiful, confident, and strong. Nothing about pjs and messy hair conveys this message. Moreover, as a mother, it is my responsibility to teach my children self-respect… and a sense of good style.
What made me nervous about becoming a mother – other than being responsible for a human being for the rest of my life! – is that classic “She used to be so gorgeous, until she had kids” epidemic that seems to have swept our country. I figured it all started with postpartum – while you are feeling your worst! I knew that just the physical recovery alone demanded comfy clothes. Not to mention the sleep deprivation and constantly being covered in all manners of bodily fluids. Babies are cute, but they are also incredibly disgusting at times. So, if I was going to dress like a bum until I could fit back into my skinny jeans, I might as well try to mix comfort and cuteness the best I could.
I also truly believe in that phrase: Dress as the person you want to be. On days where every part of my body ached (I swear, at times even my ear lobes hurt!), I only had an hour of sleep, and the last thing I ate was half a banana three hours ago, a little mascara and a cute colored top went a long way in being the ego-boost I needed.

Victoria’s Secret Off-The-Shoulder Tunic Fleece in Eggplant; Lucy Everyday Pants; Converse Chuck Taylors in Black; Bebe Black Fedora; Cubic Zirconia Studs; Merona Multi-Colored Scarf; Petunia Pickle Bottom Diaper Bag
I hate sweatpants. Hate them. One of the exceptions are my lucy Everyday pants, which are sleek and give an almost-tailored pants look. So for all those follow up doctor appointments that brought me out of the house and into the public eye, these were my go-to comfy pants. Paired with an oversized sweater and Chucks, I felt comfortable but still put together. Add a scarf, fedora, and simple accessories, and people almost can’t tell that you are running on four hours of sleep from over the past three days.

Victoria’s Secret Oversized Dolman Tee in White; Lucy Tank Top in Grey; Champion Capri-Style Sweatpants in Blue; Pearl Studs; Burt’s Bees Mama Bee Foot & Leg Creme; Burt’s Bees Nourishing Lotion; Earth Therapeutics Aloe Infused Socks
I wanted to look visitor-ready even when I was at home. You’ll notice I have a lot of items from
Victoria’s Secret.
I figured, if I was going to dress like a bum, it might as well be a sexy bum, right? I particularly love their Dolman-style tops*, which are great for layering and adding a little forgiveness to a recovering postpartum body. Also, as time for myself ceased to exist, I took advantage of the little luxuries, such as
these Aloe-Infused socks (which I LOVE!) and
Burt’s Bees lotions.
Pedicure on the go!

Victoria’s Secret Yoga Bralette in Turquoise; Victoria’s Secret Sheer Burnout Henley in Black; Victoria’s Secret Vintage-Wash Boyfriend Wide Leg Sweatpants in Charcoal; OPI Nail Polish in Bubble Bath; Aden + Anais Swaddling Blankets; small bracelets
When putting together my recovery wardrobe, I also wanted to make sure it could easily transition from running around the house to comfy cat naps when LM was sleeping. For hating sweatpants, I love these super soft fleece sweats from Victoria’s Secret. If you are nursing, nursing tops are great but yoga tops are another great alternative. Another great nursing item is a simple bracelet for keeping track of sides – which can be tricky to remember at 3 AM. Just move the bracelet from hand to hand. I also highly suggest a few swaddling blankets from Aden + Anais that are not only great for the baby and can double as a quick cover-up.
Keeping my hands well manicured is always a top priority and the ultimate accessory to any look. Lately I’ve been opting for no polish or clear, since upkeep can be a challenge. If I really need some color, I go with a light option, like Bubble Bath from OPI. It goes with everything and preliminary chipping is barely noticeable. And keeping a good read nearby is good for when baby is soundly sleeping on my chest. I can get a page or two in before I doze off, too.

Headbands; Spin Pins by Goody; hairbands; John Master’s Organics Sea Mist Spray; & a candid of me with my “messy bun.” (I practice what I preach!)
Figuring out what to do with my crazy hair wasn’t too hard – the messy bun is my best friend! And these Spin Pins by Goody are great for anyone with long hair. Throw on a cute headband for a little chicness and I’m good to go. (If you have short hair, headbands are also a great hair accessory when you simply have no time to style.) If I need a little more volume or texture, I use a little Sea Mist Spray by John Master’s Organics before pinning it up. Plus, it smells amazing!
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* The win with purchasing these Dolman-style tops is that they can be re-introduced into a standard wardrobe as great swimsuit cover ups for the summer. A great one time purchase!
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